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★★★★★
This is THE self-help book to read!
Life is cumulative. Past experience builds upon more experience and we
become who we are whether we're conscious of it or not. Memories of these
experiences are stored physically in the brain. Dr. Shapiro's book helps
people think about their lives and provides specific techniques to find the
links to make sense of who we are. She provides real life examples to which
one can relate, then suggests hands-on strategies and exercises that enable
the reader to connect the dots, make new decisions, take different actions,
and achieve the means to effect change and growth. However, nowhere in this
book does she recommend or mention moving one's eyes, nor does she suggest
self-administered EMDR, because that would be clearly unethical and
irresponsible. Rather, when an emotional problem is described, she offers a
variety of self-help techniques that can be safely used. In addition, she
offers guidelines for readers to decide if it would be useful to get
professional help with an experienced EMDR clinician.
Getting Past Your Past is full of accessible, empowering self-help
resources. It's a delight to read, difficult to put down, and has something
beneficial and fruitful for everyone.
February 2012 · Books · verified purchase