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As it begins, Spare feels like a memoir for the Class of 2003. (Which I am.) I’m Harry’s age, my mother reminded me of Diana. My parents divorced. I was thoroughly a child of the 90s. Standing in grocery check-out lines at direct eye height, I read the covers of every tabloid and magazine each week shopping with whatever parent I was with. Diana’s death rocked me as a 12 year old American girl. Then, through middle school, both princes featured heavily on Tiger Beat and BOP. They were as pop culture as the Spice Girls to us. I know Harry’s story about the British press to be true because, I, a lowly consumer of said media watched it all as it happened in real time from the time I could watch TV. All of us in the public have had the information pushed on us all our (Gen X onward) lives. The unhealthy obsession with celebrity and the ongoing tragedy that causes real people in real life. As the story wraps on, you begin to feel like you’re sitting down with an old friend you haven’t seen in years having a drink, listening to the best stories you’ve ever heard a friend tell. Especially for listeners of the audiobook, it is an immersive experience into the building blocks of a life those of us who’ve given it much thought could only dream of having context and perspective to: modern monarchy. As an anthropologist and archaeologist primarily engrossed with insular and Atlantic Europe from the Neolithic to the end of Roman occupation, the stories that give us record to track ourselves over vast times is a gift. And surviving very often in our written record are tales of our dynasties and the families behind them. The gods don’t choose these people but in a way, we all have contributed to it collectively. Wherever our ancestors have been, they’ve been touched by a decision influenced or dictated by this particular one. Which is why from the even broader picture, Harry’s book will be referenced in time beyond as future generations look back on this era to understand it from that historical particularism of a second hand emic view. By the end of the book, the story meets it’s plaited theme in one perfect idea. A hope for life, not just survival. Many people my age are currently breaking their own generational curses and cycles of abuse, and abusive the BRF absolutely is - but it absolutely doesn’t have to be. So I relate to that. I’ve had similar struggles with my own family. Unhealed people will always yearn for the version of you that was easiest to control. I don’t doubt the pain and emotional distress the King and William have experienced. It is a hard thing to comprehend and so easy to blame someone else. Bravo to Harry for contributing an accessible perspective to the public told in an entertaining and genuine way.